
About Me
My Story
Before becoming a therapist, I spent nearly two decades in law, institutional finance, technology, and entrepreneurship.
I began my career in structured finance and investment banking, with senior roles at Goldman Sachs and the Royal Bank of Scotland. I later went into technology, serving as General Counsel and Head of Product at start-ups, including Figure and RoofStock, that grew rapidly and reached unicorn valuations. I also had the privilege of co-founding FinDox and serving as its President. The company was later acquired.
Those years gave me experience with businesses at very different stages, complex financial and legal problems, leadership, risk, and decisions with significant consequences. I worked alongside founders, investors, attorneys, bankers, engineers, and executives, and had the opportunity to build companies, manage people, negotiate, take risks, make mistakes, and learn from all of it.
By the time I left that career, I had achieved the professional and financial success I had worked toward. More importantly, I had the freedom to ask myself how I wanted to spend the next part of my life.
When I had the freedom to do anything, I chose psychotherapy.
I returned to graduate school and earned my M.A. in Marriage and Family Therapy from Pepperdine University, followed by Ph.D. coursework in Clinical Sexology. I immersed myself in clinical training in relationships, trauma, intimacy, attachment, and the ways people change.
Before private practice, I trained at Exodus Recovery, a residential crisis facility working with clients in acute psychiatric and addiction crises. That experience gave me clinical experience with serious mental health concerns, substance use, trauma, and people under significant stress.
I love being a therapist. I am deeply interested in how people become who they are, what drives us, how we make decisions, why we repeat patterns we understand perfectly well, what happens between people who love each other, and how our priorities change over the course of a life.
The people I work with learn to understand what they feel, ask for what they need, and recognize the patterns that keep repeating in their relationships and their own lives. They become better partners, better parents, and more honest versions of themselves.
My first career also gives me context for the lives many of my clients lead. I understand businesses, demanding careers, financial complexity, leadership, risk, and consequential decisions. Clients rarely need to translate that world for me. I understand the context. I still want to understand the person.
When we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves.Viktor Frankl
My Approach
I am deeply relational in how I understand people. I want to know how you experience yourself, the people you love, your work, and the decisions you make. I am interested in what you think, what you feel, what you do with those feelings, and what happens between you and the people around you.
I am active and direct in the room. I listen closely, ask thoughtful, deepening questions, offer observations, and challenge clients when I think it will be useful. Clients appreciate that our sessions have substance and direction. I welcome clients who question my observations, and I am comfortable challenging theirs.
I am interested in the problem that brings you in and the context around it. We look at the experiences and patterns that influence how you respond today, including your own choices and contributions. Accountability is important in my work without turning the conversation into an exercise in blame.
Many of my clients are highly analytical, and I consider that an asset. We use it. We also work with emotion, memory, and physical experience when intellectual understanding has not changed how you feel or respond. I may ask you to slow down, notice what is happening in your body, tell me the story rather than explain it, or work directly with a difficult memory through Accelerated Resolution Therapy.
The work is psychologically deep and practical. What we understand in therapy should be useful in how you live, make decisions, communicate, and relate to the people around you.
Education & Credentials
Education
- B.A., Summa Cum Laude, University of Michigan
- J.D., University of Michigan Law School
- M.A., Marriage and Family Therapy, Pepperdine University
- Ph.D. Candidate, Clinical Sexology
Licensure
- Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, California #148775
- Member, California and New York State Bars
Clinical Training
- Relational Life Therapy
- Gottman Method Couples Therapy
- Emotionally Focused Therapy
- Accelerated Resolution Therapy
- Mediation and Dispute Resolution
Outside the Office
I am a parent to two kids, one in college and one in high school. They have given me a close-up education in adolescence, young adulthood, and the ways parenting changes as children become increasingly independent.
I have also navigated divorce, co-parenting, and building a blended family. Family life rarely fits neatly into the plans we make for it. There are former spouses, new partners, children with different needs, competing loyalties, changing expectations, and decisions that affect everyone involved. Even when everyone is trying to do the right thing, there isn't always a perfect solution.
These experiences are my own, and I don't assume they tell me what someone else's experience is. They do give me an appreciation for how complicated family life can be, and how much can be true at the same time.
Outside the office, I enjoy being outdoors, cycling, traveling, reading, keeping up with tech news, and spending time with family and friends. My children remain unconvinced that I am as funny as I think I am.
Education
- B.A. (Summa Cum Laude)University of Michigan
- J.D.University of Michigan Law School
- M.A. Marriage and Family TherapyPepperdine Graduate School of Education and Psychology
- Ph.D. coursework completed, Clinical SexologyModern Sex Therapy Institutes. Focus on intimacy, communication, and sexual health. Dissertation project in progress.
Professional Accreditation
- Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist#148775
- Member of the California and New York Bar Associations
Advanced Training
- Relational Life Therapy (RLT)
- Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)
- Gottman Method Couples Therapy
- Intensive Trauma-Focused Therapy
- Accelerated Resolution Therapy (ART)
- Basic and Advanced Mediation and Dispute Resolution